In just looking at my Facebook wall I bet a lot of people have a very different picture about who I am. They probably think if they get an epidural or use formula they can't be friends with me. Yeah... right... because I'm THAT petty. All I want based on information I share is for folks to know their options because the epidural and formula world has become so normal that anything different almost needs to fight for attention.
People might think I'm a stubborn opinionated bitch, but it's my wall and I'll put my thoughts up there regardless of what anyone thinks. Sometimes I treat it almost like a journal. Most of the links I post are simply to spread knowledge for those that want it. All I'm doing is clicking 'share' from other peoples walls. I'm not spending hours blogging and scouring the internet for every little detail. It's not my life. Feel free to gloss over it and ignore it much like I do when people talk about sporting events, working on cars, or finding a new job.
Now, if we actually hang out in person... guess what... I don't talk about any of that stuff unless you bring it up! I do actually have other things to talk about in this world. I'm probably the most non-confrontational wuss debate avoider in the world. Do not fear hanging out with me... I promise I don't bite.
Now, I'm not going to change my ways - so I beg you... if you are on my friend list just festering with hate against me based on links I post or statuses I write... do us both a favor and either talk to me about it or click that unfriend button rather than let your anger build until you lash out against me. I'm not the one lurking in the dark, I don't know how you feel about the issues if you never tell me, and I don't mean to hurt/offend anyone.
If Facebook had existed 10 years ago my statuses would have been filled with information about drink specials, who slept with who, how much work sucked, rights of other beings on this earth, late nights, needing caffeine to function, and other such non-sense. Guess what? Nothing has changed. Just now the beverage special I'm talking about is breastfeeding, who slept with who is co-sleeping, etc. That's just it - those are all things I do no matter what decade or place I am in life... but they are not WHO I am.